Aries and Capricorn
THE RAM AND THE GOAT: Conflicting Species
This is something of a business deal in that with mutual effort, each gets a substantial reward. Aries brings excitement to this relationship, while Capricorn brings stability. But this is not an easy pairing.
Both Signs have some tendency to be flirtatious as well as at least a little jealous. The Ram, ruled by the planet Mars, will let that Martian anger out. The Goat may withdraw in stony silence. In addition, Capricorn is so intent upon achieving and accomplishing in life that he/she may not put enough attention into the relationship. The Ram, left too much to his/her own devices, is apt to roam a field.
Aries recognizes the need for a partner who balances his/her impulsive nature. Capricorn does that. Capricorn is intrigued by the vitality of Aries and by the wonderful ability Aries has to be open to new things without prejudging. Capricorn has an opinion about almost everything. With a prodigious memory, when confronting something new, the Goat puts those opinions into categories with previous experiences. Aries approaches new things simply and openly.
In bed Aries is fairly mainstream, sticking to the basics of kissing, oral sex, and intercourse. Many Capricorns want to experiment with a wide range of sexual behaviors that may range from light bondage to sadomasochism. The Goat must go slowly to initiate Aries, and Aries must be open-minded if sex is to remain vital. Can this relationship last? Yes. Will it? That depends wholly on how much effort each brings to it.
ARIES WOMAN AND CAPRICORN MAN
While he’s courting her, Capricorn buys Aries lovely gifts and treats her attentively. Once they’re a couple, he turns his attention back to the fundamental Capricorn interests—business affairs. As a result, Aries feels betrayed, sex dies down, and the relationship ends up in jeopardy. This doesn’t happen overnight. Initially, Aries hardly realizes that Capricorn’s being inattentive. She’s free to do what she wants without him checking up on her. Over time, she realizes that he simply isn’t paying attention. No Aries woman will put up with that. She’ll try to win him back with her prowess in the bedroom. It doesn’t work that way with Capricorn.
ARIES MAN AND CAPRICORN WOMAN
Aries man/Capricorn woman is an awkward combination, but it’s workable with mutual acceptance of significant differences. The Capricorn woman must acknowledge that Aries is a perpetual boy. If she finds his almost childlike enthusiasm charming, that’s a plus. Aries must accept that Capricorn’s far more down-to-earth and less excitable than he. She wants him to assume more responsibilities and he’ll try to get her to take over running their lives. It won’t be beneficial if she does. Ultimately, he’ll blame her if he becomes dependent upon her. In matters of sex, Capricorn wants much more foreplay than Aries needs and his premature ejaculation will turn her off.